Angst_Ridden

Have we ever been hurt before?
Like really hurt… as in HURT…
And have we ever felt pain?
Like really pain… as in PAIN…

Yes, we all do…
But most of the time do we think…
Do we get hurt and feel pain because of other people?

Or do we get hurt and feel pain because of our own doing?

That is one question that we can never answer directly…

Some say it’s because of other people…
Because they don’t want to admit it.
Some people say it’s because of their own doing…
Because they wallow in self-pity…

Don’t we ever think it’s a matter of two things…
It’s because of other people and also of our own doing that we get hurt and feel pain…

Love is like that…
We get hurt because the people that we love sometimes doesn’t give the same love we give them…
We feel the pain of being incomplete and not satisfied with the attention and affection that we receive…
We get hurt because we love…
We feel pain because we are not satisfied…
I’m not saying that it’s wrong to love…
Love and pain comes together in the same package…
It offers with one hand and holds back with the other…
Don’t get hurt…
Though it’s hard to do that.
Don’t feel pain…
Though we can’t avoid that.
It’s alright to get hurt and feel the pain.
But please don’t be hurt and don’t keep the pain…
Because hurt and pain are things that can make us strong…
Something that can make us a better person…
Just like love…