It Might Be You…
How many people have came in our life and we had been thinking… he or she could be the one for us?
Some of us may say a couple of times, some may say a lot of times and there are those who are waiting for the right one to come and tell themselves… "It might be you."
Believe me, love like life… consists of trials and errors. There is no perfect relationship in this world. What makes a relationship somehow perfect is how we got along with each other through the imperfections. That is the beauty of loving, finding harmony and peace… like calm in the middle of a storm.
As what goes with loving is finding that someone you want to share your lifetime with. People come and go in our lives for a reason and each one of them teaches us a lesson. People we might think who are perfect for us for that time… but sooner or later we find out that they are not. We got hurt and we cry. It’s normal, really.
Finding a lifetime partner for some takes almost forever. They fall in love not with the person but with the idea of being in love that in turn the relationship doesn’t last that long. There are those who came to realize that they truly love the person and they end up losing themselves. Some thinks of finding the one person for them as a game or a challenge, that they change lovers every now and then, losing the essence of a real relationship and that’s when they found out that they might have passed by the one they are truly searching for. And there are people who knows how to balance their relationship, not all can do it but trying hard to maintain it is one good aspect.
All of us cannot do it, we are only human… we got limits too. We ran out of patience and understanding, we cannot hold out our anger and jealousy at times, moments that we burst out in an inappropriate place and at an inappropriate time, days that we are stubborn and don’t want to communicate and left out, being selfish and rude, hurting those we love.
But then, those emotions what makes us what we are. It is a matter of choice and control, of handling one’s self, showing who you are. To keep an open communication, an open heart and mind… to see things in a different light… to be sympathetic. Humans got a lot of flaws but that is the beauty of being human, the ability to change ourselves.
Don’t look too much… enjoy the journey… nobody said it would be easy but it is worth it. Every thing has got it’s own place and time. What you think could be perfect now could change in a matter of time. Never let your heart down if the one you think might be the one for you leaves and goes on with his journey… keep your head up high and do the same… move on and continue the journey. It only means that both of you are still looking for the one to spend their lifetime with. Someday, somewhere… maybe the two of you will meet again and that will be right time or maybe you will find someone who is also lost among the roads of life and then the two of you might not be lost anymore.
Who knows, sooner or later… after all the trials and errors… that person will come and you can say finally… "It’ll just be you."
